Counseling Session now OPEN!

Hey guys~so hows everything going on?
Sorry la dah lame menyepi diri ni. Mcm bese, aku bertapa jap.
And maybe bertapa lg this semester *sigh* such complicated major.
Btw, hope its not too late to wish u guys Selamat Hari Raya~
Seronok la masing2 with whole lots of baju raya to wear eh.
merah hijau kuning biru sume ade.as far as i can see..but nobody can challenge my
sets of baju raya.huh.still mantap and attractive lg menarik eventho it was last two years'.
(i wore mine for two years straight tau).haha.
but thats fine.planning to have 20+ pasang baju raya next year.
Wahahaha~

Hmm..ok. back to the point here.



For Anna:

Just get rid of her, babe. There's no point of thinking about this stuff over and over again.
Its not that she care, does she?
U cried and felt bad about it, but does she cry over what she did to u?
She's the one yg salah, hello.. If it is a NO, then just forget it. She's not worth a friend.
Maybe u can just get along with her and pretends that nothing happen.
I mean, if she asks sth, jawab je balik. u two pun housemate, so i guess its hard to just ignore her. Maybe as time goes on, things might get back to normal ( might took several weeks, even months) depends on her b*tchiness (sorry bad word, but i think she deserves that).
For now, I don't think u should go to her and apologize. Totally a NO-NO.
If u do that, then she might do the same thing to u next time. Seronok la dpt sakitkan hati orang, then orang tu minta maaf balik...she would feel that she controls the everything (which will increase the b*tchiness, again. she deserves that).
If she's still masam muka or menggedik and 'oh-minah-ni-lagi', then screw her.lets move on ppl! Don't worry about it too much that it will affect ur life.
This is just small thing compared to other big stuffs that awaits u in the future(Believe me, this is nothing compared to what u will experience later, job stress, family stress, etc.)
Eventho this is about friendship, i guess it is not gonna worth to care about if u have a friend who ignore ur feeling and just care about hers; u can't call that a friendship.
Susah cari kite, when we need help, she turns her back to us. What type of friends is that? Bertapa dalam gua sorang-sorang lagi bagus la. Or be friend with creatures other than human, segala problem pun dorg dengar for sure (haha.terover-feeling la pulak).

Ok, enough with that. All of these things actually depends on u.

Forgive-and-forget is important in building friendship, well yeah. If u dont care and she didn't, both keep ingnoring each other, then the problem is not gonna be solved.
But the thing is, what will u get if u do that? Think about it.
If u think 'be-positive-and-go-talk-to-her' is the best way to solve the problem, then go on. Maybe she do want to say sorry but just couldn't admit it. MAYBE.
If u think that there's no point to talk to her and pretend that u don't care, then its up to u. But i think it's gonna be hard to pretend that things are fine when they are not. Might end up hurting urself more. So, if still, nothing happen, or even get worse, then i think u need to talk to her. That might not be the best way, but its the most thing that u can do. Things can be different between u and her thereafter, but hey who cares, right? U have us, babe. Don't worry too much as if she's the only friend that u have in this planet (Huh,u have friends that love u more here.Bersepah serata dunia lagi--US,INDON,CZECH,MALAYSIA, amik ko).


Keep in mind, whatever happens u still have us.
(eventho, susah nk jumpe.theehee.tunggu la several years lagi.get together-gether)


written by:OCHEED

the meaning of friendship..

Ok anna, about ur problem...aku rase dalam hal ni memng bukan issue ko tu oversensitive or ape...sememangnyer kawan ko tu yang mereng...sengal..aku rasa xsiapa pon kalo berada disituasi ko mungkin akan terasa hati dan agak bengang la dengan budak tu!

betol la kata bebek yg bwat previous post ni,sape ntah hahaha..sumtime when we do good things to our friends we're expecting they'll do the same to us..sharing happy n sad moment together blablabla..tapi sebenarnya memang wujud kawan sedemikian rupa yang mana hanya memerlukan kita jika dia bermasalah supaya dia boleh melampiaskan segala kekusutan dia...tapi bila turn kita perlukan bantuan dia dia berlagak bagos...selfish!!

bagi aku yang lebih senang berfikiran terbuka dan mungkin bermulut laser, aku akan buat selamba badak je depan dia...once ade ape2 dia tnyer aku, i'll reply as sarcasm as what she did to you..let her feel what u feel...what u did u get back la!!hahaha...itu kalo ikot cara kejam la.. kalo cara kurang kejam ko xpayah je layan dia...dia tanye ape2 ke jawap je ape2 yg perlu sahaja..dia ada masalah ke pas ni ko mcm buat bolayan je..itu cara aku la...atau kalo ko lagi baik, mungkin ko bley je pretending nothing happen, dan buat mcm biasa je which i'll absolutely will not do in this case!!!!kerana? dia tahu ko marahkan dia..dan dia sedar pon sebenarnya apa yg dia buat tu meyinggung ko... laen la kalo dia mintak maaf...hoho.. tapi bagi aku kawan mcm ni mcm xle pakai sgt kot..kawan biasa2 je ok la, kalo nk close2 tu mcm mengusutkan kepala je..hahah~

but the most IMPORTANT thing is...u, urself jgn terbawa2 sgt dgn permasalahan ni...just stay focus on ur study! benda ni kecik je,jgn terlalu ikot perasaan..banyak benda laen yang boleh difikir yang lagi bermanfaat dari ni, jangan kusutkan kepala dengan issue2 mcm ni,membuang masa!..5tahun akan dtg or bila ko abes belajar nnti ko dh xjumpa dia pon..so who cares?hahaha..[alamak zalim sgt ke ni?..haha~]

ok la bekk ape2 pon! ingt pesanan aku tu...jgn pikir benda ni banyak2 oke..baek ko study, kusut2 pon bermanfaat gak untuk exam...hehehe~

written by, bekkoin!

let go~

uhhh..bek...
masalah ko ni..pada pndangan kasar..nmpk cm rumit skali..
but actually..d answer is simple...
bg pendapat aku ah kn...maybe ko tersensitif skit ah kot that day...
mcm aku...ble kite layan org baik...like listen to their probs n so on...
one day..kite harap..die akn layan kt baik skit...rite??
but..when sumthing like this happen...
mesti kite akn ungkit kmbali the good thing we done 4 her rite..
bese ah..mende ni pon slalo terjd kat aku..
so the solution is..either u ignore it or u start da move..
ble ko ignore tu..didn't mean yg ko kne masam muke ngn die..
but..klu die dh start ckp blk ngn ko..ko layan jek ah die...
coz..sumtimes..we need to forget n forgive 4 a relationship..hehehe..
that what i thought ah..hehehe..

salah ke??

Kehadapan bebek2 yg aku rindui..
Huhu..

Aku de prob sket arr kat cni ngan member aku…
Aku nak story kat korang..pas2 nak mintak pendapat korang sket..

Bende ni berlaku mase bulan pose arituh..
Faculty aku de telah mengadakan satu majlis..dan bley dikatakan majlis ni wajib di hadiri oleh sme student faculty aku sbb ni annual event..tapi walaupun wajib ramai la jugak yg x datang..termasuk la aku..aku bukan nyer baek pun kan..time tu aku ngantok..aku malas arr nak gi...bek aku tido kat umah daripada aku tido dalam dewan tu kan..ousmate aku lagi sorang pun xg gak..tapi lagi 2org g sbb dier jadi ajk..nak xnak kne g la kan...kalau dieorg x jd ajk pun kompem arr dieorg x g nyer...

Pas2..ptg tuh (selepas majlis tu berakhir...) dalam lebih kurang 10-15 minit nak berbuka...
Aku tanye la ousmate aku ni..tadi dekan datang ke?? Dier pun jawab...dgn sore berlagak dier ’of course la datang’…pas2 aku tanye lagi, dier bagi ucapan ape..?? (aku mmg ske speach dekan aku..2 yg aku tanye..plus xde bende nak borak sementara tunggu nak berbuka..)...dier pun jawab...dengan sore yg penuh berlagak..’ko xdtg kan?? Kalau ko xdtg makne nye ko xnak tahu la kan??? So x yh la tanye??! ’...dier jawab cam2...
Cube kalau korang yg dapat jawpan tuh...pe korang rase?? Mmg aku kecik ati arr ngan jawapan tuh...pas2 kiteorg lawan2 cakap sket pas2 aku jawab..’xnak bgtaw sudah!!’...dan aku pun trus blah masuk bilik aku...aku punya sedih ngan jawpan tuh sampai aku masuk bilik ngan mata dah berair..sampai bile dah azan buka pun, aku x kuar dari bilik aku sampai dier masuk bilk dier..husna panggil aku kuar pun aku xnak..

Dier tuh bukan la baek sgt pun.class banyak gak ponteng..aku pun x banyak ponteng cam dier...cube kalau die xdtg clas, pas2 tanye kawan ’ape yg lecturer ajar tadi?’ pe perasaan dier kalau kawan2 dier jawab cam2?? Pe perasaan korang kalau korng yg kne?? Korang nak taw sumthing, tapi org tuh xnak bgtaw..dan org tuh ade la kawan korang sendiri..kawan yg bile die ade prob datang cari ko sbb org laen xnak layan dier..pe perasaan korang?? Xnak bgtaw 2 xpe la kan..tapi x bley kne cakp tu ’aku x nak bgtaw’..aku paham la kan..xyh la nak kuar kan ayat2 blagak cam2...

Aku x expect dier jawab cam2..sbb dier agak rapat jugak la ngan aku...bile dier ade prob ngan bf dier, aku yg dier cari..even esok aku de test pun aku dga prob dier..aku teman dier nanges sbb rumate dier pun blah g umah org laen time tuh..tu yg aku rase kecik hati gile..dan aku mmg down arr arituh...
Dan sampai skarang pun aku x baek ngan dier...dier x mintak maap pun ngan aku even dier taw dier yg salah sbb aku trus blah time tuh..pas2 dier paham aku marah tu yg dier trus masuk bilik pas2 baru aku kuar ( dier x pose arituh)...

So...adakah korang rase aku ni terlalu sensetif sampai bende2 camni pun aku nak kecik atie..Patut ke aku mintak maap ngan die dlu padahal aku x salah..salah ke soalan yg aku tanye dier tu?? Salah ke kalau aku ade perasaan ingin taw?? Salah ke???

salah ke??

akhirnya..kembali ke pangkal jalan~

tahniah lar diucapkan kpd ocheed..
yg akhir yek dpt jugak jumpe jln msk ke blog ni ye..
huhuhu...

sebelum aku lupe..
kt cini nk wish gak ah..
SELAMAT HARI RAYA AIDILFITRI
to all bebekz..
esp to bebekz yg xdpt pulang ke mesia ke..
korg ada wat x salam prantau??
aku ada ternmpk faiz ura ye aritu..huhuhu..

kt cn nk post gak ah pic raye aku..huhuhu..
saje nk mnunjuk...

ocheed kembali~

wuuhahahahahaha~
akhirnye berjaye juge aku menggodeh blog ini:D
so hows everybody doing?
still collecting duit raye? (specially to those who get to go home.sobsob~)
hmm..berkurun aku mnyepi diri, looks like i missed a looott of updates from u guys.
*sigh*
hope korang still kenal aku la.wuhahahaha

ahha.sape suh korg amik gmbar ramai hah?haa?
aishhhhhhh~

ocheed