Counseling Session now OPEN!

Hey guys~so hows everything going on?
Sorry la dah lame menyepi diri ni. Mcm bese, aku bertapa jap.
And maybe bertapa lg this semester *sigh* such complicated major.
Btw, hope its not too late to wish u guys Selamat Hari Raya~
Seronok la masing2 with whole lots of baju raya to wear eh.
merah hijau kuning biru sume ade.as far as i can see..but nobody can challenge my
sets of baju raya.huh.still mantap and attractive lg menarik eventho it was last two years'.
(i wore mine for two years straight tau).haha.
but thats fine.planning to have 20+ pasang baju raya next year.
Wahahaha~

Hmm..ok. back to the point here.



For Anna:

Just get rid of her, babe. There's no point of thinking about this stuff over and over again.
Its not that she care, does she?
U cried and felt bad about it, but does she cry over what she did to u?
She's the one yg salah, hello.. If it is a NO, then just forget it. She's not worth a friend.
Maybe u can just get along with her and pretends that nothing happen.
I mean, if she asks sth, jawab je balik. u two pun housemate, so i guess its hard to just ignore her. Maybe as time goes on, things might get back to normal ( might took several weeks, even months) depends on her b*tchiness (sorry bad word, but i think she deserves that).
For now, I don't think u should go to her and apologize. Totally a NO-NO.
If u do that, then she might do the same thing to u next time. Seronok la dpt sakitkan hati orang, then orang tu minta maaf balik...she would feel that she controls the everything (which will increase the b*tchiness, again. she deserves that).
If she's still masam muka or menggedik and 'oh-minah-ni-lagi', then screw her.lets move on ppl! Don't worry about it too much that it will affect ur life.
This is just small thing compared to other big stuffs that awaits u in the future(Believe me, this is nothing compared to what u will experience later, job stress, family stress, etc.)
Eventho this is about friendship, i guess it is not gonna worth to care about if u have a friend who ignore ur feeling and just care about hers; u can't call that a friendship.
Susah cari kite, when we need help, she turns her back to us. What type of friends is that? Bertapa dalam gua sorang-sorang lagi bagus la. Or be friend with creatures other than human, segala problem pun dorg dengar for sure (haha.terover-feeling la pulak).

Ok, enough with that. All of these things actually depends on u.

Forgive-and-forget is important in building friendship, well yeah. If u dont care and she didn't, both keep ingnoring each other, then the problem is not gonna be solved.
But the thing is, what will u get if u do that? Think about it.
If u think 'be-positive-and-go-talk-to-her' is the best way to solve the problem, then go on. Maybe she do want to say sorry but just couldn't admit it. MAYBE.
If u think that there's no point to talk to her and pretend that u don't care, then its up to u. But i think it's gonna be hard to pretend that things are fine when they are not. Might end up hurting urself more. So, if still, nothing happen, or even get worse, then i think u need to talk to her. That might not be the best way, but its the most thing that u can do. Things can be different between u and her thereafter, but hey who cares, right? U have us, babe. Don't worry too much as if she's the only friend that u have in this planet (Huh,u have friends that love u more here.Bersepah serata dunia lagi--US,INDON,CZECH,MALAYSIA, amik ko).


Keep in mind, whatever happens u still have us.
(eventho, susah nk jumpe.theehee.tunggu la several years lagi.get together-gether)


written by:OCHEED