watta wuttt??
hey.hey.inila gossip yg kutunggu-tungguu~
:P
well,cik qubee
"who's that lucky guy?"
i know he's our xschoolmate, but that didn't specify anything
haha.if u can mention his name here it wud be great.ngeee:P
thanks cik koin for telling cik qubee that im the expert for this topic.haha
well, for me the decision is up to u (and ur feeling towards him, of course:D)
if u like him, then the decision is pretty obvious:P
but if u don't, then try to explain to him about things that make u do so
i know it is hard because u gonna hurt sumone's feeling, but hey 'love can't be forced, it comes naturally' ok. but seriously cik qubee, think thoroughly before u try to make any decision.
any decision that u make will affect ur life (especially ur future), direct or indirectly.
but for me, love at young age is not considered as 'true love' or 'love at first sight buh-bluh-whatever'. (but still, ko dah tua ok.haha)
i have been through all of these, and i really regret it. it affected my study, and the commitment was even harder than what i have ever imagined (belum kawin lagi tu.haha)
really,it is hard to find a good guy that really and honestly care about us(i believe that perfect guy doesn't even exist) but of course as successful women, we dream of a guy who has 'perfect score' in everything( from head to toe, from his pocket to his bank).
well, i'd love to share with u guys, my preferences in choosing my future 'perfect' guy :
-his age(he has to be older than me, so that he'll be able to make mature decisions)
-his education(i know this sounds bad and discriminating, but i'm looking for sumone who is in the same level or more in education than me.if not then boleh ada ungkit mengungkit di lain hari. like working or sth,sorang gaji besar yg lagi sorang nanti kecik hati)
-his job(haha.of course la.he'd better have a great job that have a specified time of work,and no more works after 7pm.haha.demanding sikit)
hmm.ok la qubee, i'm not sure how this is helping but if u ever think of rejecting him (haha.kesian that guy)then i hope these lines might help u,
"i'm trying to focus on my study first, then blabla..".
or if he still insists, then use these words, "it is hard for people to stay in love when they are far apart" or by simply said "i don't have any feeling towards u.im sorry"direct je.haha
try to handle it as gently as u can, but be aware of the consequences that u might have.
of course, it is hard to act normally after that, but well, life must go on.
sooner or later he might have found a girl to replace u.and by that time i hope u already found a guy that matched ur 'perfect husband's lists too and live happily ever after:D
btw, we still have thousands of Malay guys all around the world, all of them searching for a brilliant,cool,cute girl like u (jgn kembang sgt ye qub). so don't feel sorry for only one guy and don't let him bother u so much because all of these can lead u to further distraction.So "be wise".But if u find him attractive (and match ur lists) truly from ur heart, then don't blow this 'once-in-a-life' opportunity.just let him be ur guy:D
sekian terima kasih.
ps-Qub sila update kisah cinta terbaru anda ye, jika ada update:D
written by: ocheed
Sunday, April 27, 2008
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